“Is Low Self-Esteem Sabotaging Your Relationship?”
1. When I’m feeling low, I often look to my boyfriend to boost my
mood. (True/False)
2. I feel jealous of other women (my boyfriend’s female friends, his
co-workers, even his ex-girlfriends whom he no longer has
contact with) a lot of the time. (True/False)
3. I find it difficult to believe that my boyfriend really loves me, no
matter how many times he says it. (True/False)
4. I’m sometimes suspicious that my boyfriend is lying (e.g. telling
me that he’s working late when he’s really out with another
woman). (True/False)
5. I’ve been known to manipulate a situation (e.g. create a crisis
and call my boyfriend crying to make him come home early from
a guys’ night out) to get attention. (True/False)
If you answered “True” to any of the above questions, you could be the source of drama in your relationship. In order to set yourself on the path to drama-free dating (either in your current relationship or to start a new one), refer to Chapters 2 and 5 in “Dating Without Drama” for exercises that will help build your self-esteem.
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