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Finding True Love

INSPIRATION STORY
"I've Finally Met an Emotionally Available Man... And I'm Learning How it Feels to Truly Be Loved."

 "Dear Paige,
 
 I went into a relationship feeling confident in knowing that I
was a beautiful, intelligent woman in her 40's who was well
equipped to give and be able to get the things I wanted out of a
relationship; but when my last relationship failed, I purchasing
your eBook "Dating without Drama" out of desperation for answers.
 
Your book has helped me to identify some pretty significant
behaviors within myself that needed changing; with the hardest
part of admitting that I even had these issues!!  
 
I've learned that I am attracted to emotionally unavailable men.
(Notice I still say "am").  I was a widow for 5 yrs. and stayed
single while mourning; but once I became ready to date again I
met a man. Everything was wonderful for the first six months but
when I learned that he spent the night at his ex's house in order
to visit with his step daughter I showed him I wasn't going to
accept it by backing away for a few weeks. Afterwards, he began
distancing himself throughout the last 3 months until I finally
confronted him by asking him if he just wanted to be friends
and he said "yes".
 
Now that I can look back, there were several "red flags" that
were shown to me that I either over-looked or I was just not
savvy upon recognizing.
 
Your eBook has caused me to ask myself why I was so attracted to
this man, why I fell so deeply in love with him and why I hung
on to something that was so unattainable. I am still learning
about myself, but I believe that it was the challenge of wanting
to "fix" this man. Yes, I truly loved him but deep inside I knew
I would have had to lower myself to meet his expectations; so
when he said he wanted to just be friends, I didn't argue but
instead...I let it go.
 
Shortly afterwards, I took your advice and held my shoulders
back with pride and kept a radiant smile and guess what? I met
another gentleman. He is so emotionally available, that the
difference is like night & day! He calls at least once or twice
a day, sends flowers, showers me with attention and speaks of
things he sees us doing together "this time next year!"
 
Even though he is handsome, well established in his career and
greatly admired by his co-workers, family & friends, etc. I
originally thought of this "nice" guy as boring and too easy!
However, I kept in mind all the things you taught me; that
"nice guys are where it's at", and "that life has its own dramas...
so why would I want to add some more into my relationship?"
 
I remembered to remain independent & secure about myself; I
followed the phone calling advice and the "L" word advice and
all I can say is that it is ALL working! I can honestly say that
by accepting this new guy (along with the smooth ride that he's
taking me on) at first felt somewhat "unnatural" but now I'm
beginning to appreciate him and beauty that this new relationship
is bringing and my feelings for him are growing deeper.
 
But the greatest reward of all is that the beautiful & intelligent
woman that I know that I am is finally being recognized and
appreciated by a good man who genuinely loves me for me and loves
what I have to offer in return!
 
Thank you for your time and for your teachings!!
Rhonda"

 
TO LEARN HOW YOU CAN DO IT TOO:
Discover how to build a new relationship on a strong foundation in Chapter 2 of "Dating Without Drama," learn helpful guidelines about calling in Chapter 6, and check out Communication Tools for a Drama-Free Relationship in Chapter 16.
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