You'll never guess who appeared from out of the blue....
Tue Nov 17 2009 - 09:08 pm
no, not DJMan. My post would not have been nearly as calm lol.
Remember Boatman? The one who took me to his sister's lakehouse? We had been seeing each other once or twice a week, he called every day and then suddenly...nothing.
He had just started a new job and had told me he would need to travel the first month or so...I knew that wasn't the reason or he would have continued to call.
A couple of weeks ago he sent me an email joke, I responded that it was funny. Then came the "how have you been?" email. Told him I've been having a great fall.
Next came the "we should get together for a drink" email - he had to do it that way as I've changed my phone number since we last spoke. So tomorrow night we are meeting for a drink.
He's a nice guy and I always had fun with him. I'm not jumping up and down with excitement at the prospect of seeing him. So...we'll see.
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 12:24 am
Whatif,
You sound like you are jumping up and down..I was surprised to read you are not?! So, how long did you date him for before he disappeared? and how long has it been since you last saw him?
Tell us more about him and your feelings about him...It sounds to me like you have way more excitement than you are leading on to...::)) it is ok to be excited...it is feels good!!!::)))
xoxoxoxoxo
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 12:26 am
Damn guys anyway!!! Ha! Are you happy?? If so then I am happy for you. Go and enjoy that drink and maybe a kiss for old times sake too? ;) You deserve to be happy and fill me in please! :)
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 12:28 am
You got that too Strong? She's not jumping up and down...RIGHT! Like we are all blind here. ;) I am posting an update on Mr. Yankee and Steve (already posted his) so come take a peek. :)
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 12:28 am
Don't you love those emails from out of the blue? Good for you for not jumping up and down with excitement. Just take it as it comes!! Let us know what happens.
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 12:34 am
Got the drink...and the kiss...and some very interesting conversation...I'll have to fill you in tomorrow as dinner #2 is waiting....
I am not a player!!!!
:-D
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 01:05 am
Ha Ha!! keep telling yourself that...you rascal!! I'm so glad you got both! i want to hear all about it and why is it again that I have to wait until tomorrow!!??
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 01:05 am
She's such a tease!
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 07:58 am
Because she has so many men and so little time.
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 10:19 am
Whatif,
This really is a great topic and I am glad you brought it up. I have been harping on something that relates to this. A lot of the situations on this board are women wanting to solve the men delima now now now. It doesn't usually work that way and you are a prime example. They usually come back around if you just go on with your life and not stress about it. It's all about timing and not always our timing. It could be months, but my philosophy is what's the big hurry.
We meet a guy and we click and we think oh my where is this going, we over analyze, wonder what they are thinking and feeling and things progress and one day he just vanishes.
The flip side, guy meets us, enjoys our company, thinks we are great but is in no hurry for anything (most men don't have a desire to rush towards a commitment). Then they get distracted with something else. A few days go by and they think I will call her soon. A few more days go by and they thing (because of women in their past) if I call her now, she is going to ask all kinds of questions. A few more days go by, he thinks if I call her now she is probably going to cuss me and get all emotional and ask questions and make me feel like a heel so maybe I just won't call.
Fast forward a month, two months maybe longer. He wakes up one day and thinks, wow I really liked whatif, she was fun and she has not once bothered me about my vanishing act. Maybe she is pretty cool. I think I will call her.
And there you sat having cocktails with him. That's how it works a lot of times really. It's all about timing.
Thu Nov 19 2009 - 11:11 am
Whatif, so glad for you. What Robin has said is so true.
The flip side, guy meets us, enjoys our company, thinks we are great but is in no hurry for anything (most men don't have a desire to rush towards a commitment). Then they get distracted with something else. A few days go by and they think I will call her soon. A few more days go by and they thing (because of women in their past) if I call her now, she is going to ask all kinds of questions. A few more days go by, he thinks if I call her now she is probably going to cuss me and get all emotional and ask questions and make me feel like a heel so maybe I just won't call.
Fast forward a month, two months maybe longer. He wakes up one day and thinks, wow I really liked whatif, she was fun and she has not once bothered me about my vanishing act. Maybe she is pretty cool. I think I will call her.
And there you sat having cocktails with him. That's how it works a lot of times really. It's all about timing.
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Timing for them; Love from you...
Auds
xoxox
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