You are a GODDESS!
Sun Jul 26 2009 - 10:21 am
I was on the "30 days no contact" forum with a great bunch of women. When I first joined we were all sappy and miserable. As we supported each other, we grew stronger and stronger. The stronger we got, the better we felt. We all are good, understanding, sexy, smart, successful women.
I was thinking to myself: What is wrong with men? Why can't they see us? My answer is:
Men don't fall in love with beautiful, sexy, smart, successful, good, loving women.
Men fall in love with Goddesses. I am here to learn how to be Goddess. I believe we all have it in us, but are afraid to show it.
I am going to start first with this threat and hope we can help each other shine as the Goddesses we are.
Goddess is a woman who is sexy, confident, playful and object of desire. Goddess is a woman who has boundaries and pulls away the moment something doesn't feel good. Goddess is a woman who doesn't follow a man, but expects him to follow her and at the same time doesn't look back or wait for him if he doesn't.
OK Girls, tell me more about what kind of Goddess you are
Sun Jul 26 2009 - 11:37 am
Men understand the woman that is before him, he understands this wonderful creature is like NO other, he understands she is a person who dances to her own tune, she is happy, funloving, independent, yet vulnerable, she has a strong and soft side and for the life of him, he can't figure out why she has now hooked him, Mr. Playa, Playa, making his heart go pitter patter.
He falls in love because he has painted a picture of her being a Goddess in HIS mind.
Sun Jul 26 2009 - 12:13 pm
EboneeJones,
Thank you. I love your Goddess play.
The soft and the strong side in balance. The dance that enchants him.
Sun Jul 26 2009 - 12:58 pm
Buitifil, you are most welcome.
Sun Jul 26 2009 - 05:56 pm
Goddess?
Don't know about that - maybe I am a bit special to some - and especially to me.
Hows that for a start?
Sun Jul 26 2009 - 06:19 pm
wickedsoul,
You are Goddess. You say I bit special. That's a good start. Do you want to be Goddess?
Sun Jul 26 2009 - 09:50 pm
I'm working on it...stay tuned!!
Mon Jul 27 2009 - 11:15 am
Competition and High Degree of Difficulty is what get's men Going!
It also accomplishes another very important thing for us: It screens all the unavailable for one reason or another men from entering our lives and causing broken hearts.
Whatever your situation is and whatever your question is in a relationship, out of relationship, looking for relationship, always use this guide: What Would Goddess DO?
Mon Jul 27 2009 - 02:33 pm
"competition and a high degree of difficulty". Veeery interesting. That is one I would have to work on since I'm a natural pleaser. But already in my mind I am trying to change this behavior (that I always thought was the right way). big DUH!!! I honestly don't know how to be difficult unless I'm pissed about something...Any hints for moi?? All is appreciated, for sure.
Mon Jul 27 2009 - 02:35 pm
Thank you buitiful for this very important thread! I'll be sitting right behind you in class since i know crap about this Goddess stuff. lol
Mon Jul 27 2009 - 03:34 pm
Darlin,
You know everything there is to know about being Goddess. You just have to forget what your mama told you how to be. You are born Goddess and made by society pleaser. High degree of difficulty doesn't mean being selfish or bitchy. Means being Goddess.
Here is important tip:
Sit down and write what you want and what you don't want in relationship and in a man. Take your time, revise it for a few days. When it looks about right, read it over and over. Every day. Those are your boundaries. They are your guides about how to be Goddess. If a man does something that doesn't feel good, move back.. step back in the relationship. Don't try to do more and something else or be better for him. IT's that simple, just step back. Hold on to your boundaries. Match the man to them, don't move them for the man.
Inspiration Story:
Connect w/ Paige
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