went on a date, now what?
Sun Aug 16 2009 - 04:27 pm
ok so i went a date with this guy and we really hit it off, he was very sweet and affectionate and we would look into each others eyes all night and get lost in each other. i really felt a connection with him and he says he felt the same thing. the next day i texted him goodmoring and from there we couldnt stop texting and he kept calling me all day too. then later that nght he even mentioned he was going out with his sister and her friend whome really liked him but he called and told me he didnt want to do anything with her cuz he really liked me and that normally he wouldnt care and since it was our first time meeting he doesnt usually care but since he really liked me he didnt want to do anything with her. so im assuming he really likes me, but now i havnt heard anything back from him since last night. do you think hes still into me? i want to contact him but i know i shouldnt i just miss him already, i know its weird but we really had a connection. so why hasnt he called?
Mon Aug 17 2009 - 12:41 am
It's only been a day. I think you should just wait it out and go do something fun for yourself...hang out with your friends, read a book, get a mani/pedi etc. He might just be busy with friends or family and hasn't had a chance to call you yet. If you text or call you will never know if he is really interested or just being polite back.
Sat Aug 22 2009 - 11:47 pm
Im sad to say I have been seeing the same guy on and off for four years in March. I met him at our work. It was great in the beginning. But the sex sucks, the talking consists of well im just not in the state of mind to talk now. He doesnt want to touch my son. And hes so Effing cheap it makes my teeth crack. He has never paid for more than one date.
And got me flowers on my birthday with the money he stole.
And no you dont have to tell me I dont need him.
I just dont want to be alone. I d like to get some ass once in awhile.
The problem that I have is, telling myself its not fair to my son.
He is the only man my son knows as Dada.
And calling him a man is two thirds shy of the truth.
I knew what i was getting into , Im 28 and when I turn 29 hell be 23.
Im just upset. Im disappointed I have it in me to be so patient. And I knew the whole time I loved Dave.. but that guy would rather tazor me then say hello.
So what do you do.What do you do when your not attracted to anyone and you have a son you love spending all your time with and refuse to expose him to the dating scene. And hell no Im not forking him over like second hand meat to a sitter to meet some guy to bang him all night.
Sun Aug 23 2009 - 07:37 am
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Tue Aug 25 2009 - 06:56 pm
Tiffany, let the guy call you, Do NOT call him. If he's into you he will, if he's not he won't, and then you'll save yourself a ton of D.R.A.M.A. (drama isn't fun). ;)
Btw, I like what Christian Carter teaches: he doesn't give a rip how the guy acts on the date, all that matters is what he does AFTER the date. That's where you'll learn if he's really interested in you, or not. And if not...NEXT! :)
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