Wait a season. Check his Facebook. Voila!
Sat Aug 15 2009 - 12:51 pm
Around the beginning of the summer, long story short - my ex and I broke up after a 14-month relationship.
I was pretty devastated for a good deal of the summer, even though I did a lot of awesome things which made up for that.
Toward the end of the summer, just yesterday in fact, I checked his Facebook after No Contact and...
It was like I didn't even know who he was.
I know it sounds like I'm encouraging you to stalk your ex. Well, I'm not. I'm just saying - I looked at his wall posts, what he was really into, his new profile picture...
And I thought, "Who the hell is this guy?" I'm not into what he's into at all.
Conclusion: "He's really NOT my type!"
Now I'm perfectly okay with not even being his friend! My life feels so complete in a way it never has before!
Tue Aug 25 2009 - 06:04 am
#2
yep that has happen to me....i realise that everything he likes i never like. hence the reason why i embark on the journey of dating myself to spend quality time with myself.
Tue Aug 25 2009 - 06:04 am
#3
yep that has happen to me....i realise that everything he likes i never like. hence the reason why i embark on the journey of dating myself to spend quality time with myself.
Fri Sep 04 2009 - 09:00 am
#4
I've been told not to check but I'm still checking. My picture is still up there so at least maybe there is still hope he hasn't totally ended it yet? But then again, I read him telling another "friend" the same thing he used to say to me. Wow. Can't they get "new" lines to fit the "new" women?
Thu Sep 10 2009 - 05:30 pm
#5
didn't work for me. me and my ex have been split up for 9 months now and i still like what i see. and he still has aallll our pictures up. (eventhough i deleted mine within a week of him dumping me so i would get over him.) I care about him still, but don't love him anymore though. i have a new boyfriend whom i'm happy with
Fri Oct 16 2009 - 05:53 am
#6
I knew from the beginning that I wasn't my last date's type. But his facebook is pretty amusing. He's got cheerleaders. Girls that always comment under everything. I'm glad I never became one of them. And hope I never will!
Congrats! A little time and perspective really makes a difference. If only we can have that perspective when we're all tangled up in the relationship!