Is there something wrong with me? SEX topic
Tue Mar 16 2010 - 07:27 pm
I keep reading about all the ladies that are having sex on 1st, 2nd, 3rd dates. I go on 20 and still don't want to have sex with them:(. I'm starting to think there is something wrong with me.
Since my last relationship (2 years ago), i haven't wanted to jump in the sack with any of my dates. That relationship, sex happened quickly, but it's because I had known him for 9 years. The relationship before him was immediate-I wanted him. It's been a looong time since I felt that 'cat in heat' feeling...:(
Is this normal? Honestly, I would love to go out with someone that rang my bell right away...
Advice?
Tue Mar 16 2010 - 07:33 pm
I don't want to leap into bed after just the first few dates either. I need time to build an emotional connection and a certain level of trust. If I don't get those things, I just am not into it physically. I don't care how good looking the guy is.
You are not that unusual. Before this board, I didn't know that some women wait several months before having sex. Doesn't Paige advise putting off sex as long as possible?
I would love a guy to come along who revs my motor, but the older I get the older the men are and it ain't pretty.
Tue Mar 16 2010 - 08:21 pm
Oh boy that is the truth! I'm not a spring chicken, but my body is very fit & I'm an attractive female.
I find the younger guys are the ones that can keep up with me, but I tend to shy away from them.
The guy I've been seeing for about 8 months isn't reving me. God knows it could take me years if it's not immediate...
It's nice to hear I'm not 'abnormal' thetababe...well to some extent:).
Tue Mar 16 2010 - 09:00 pm
i got hit on by a 76 year old married man.
Tue Mar 16 2010 - 10:37 pm
I don't think there is anything "wrong" with you...but is it your "age' that might be keeping you from wanting it, or is it just the caliber of men that you are dating, or it could be just that you are waiting on a man to just hit the right button that allows you to feel "sensual" enough to want to go to bed with him!
But I wouldn't jump in the bed with someone that you are not attracted to just because "everyone" else is doing it! lol
Wed Mar 17 2010 - 12:04 am
If everyone jumped off the Empire State building...
Wed Mar 17 2010 - 04:34 am
As women, our biggest sex organ is our brains. Someone's gonna titillate your mind once you really get to know them, trust them and love them. Consider it all foreplay until then.
Wed Mar 17 2010 - 06:32 pm
YES. Intellectual stimulation is where it starts for me. It's a MUST have...
Wed Mar 17 2010 - 07:12 pm
there nothing wrong with you sassy35 I like to wait myself
until we know each other more and until its at least exclusive
before I even think about having sex!
Inspiration Story:
Connect w/ Paige
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