Starting to worry,...
Fri Oct 16 2009 - 12:14 am
So I've been seeing my BF for about a month and a half and I really really like him... At first it was just like ok... he's nice and we get along but I didn't feel that major connection... However, the past few days I've been starting to feel the butterflies and just this feeling when Im around him that I can't even describe...
He is the best BF ever... we get along really well, have great communication, have a lot in common and enjoy being together... He is very good to me, and does the little things that other guys haven't...
The problem is, however, that I'm starting to worry that this is just the peak and he is eventually gonna get over me and move on... Idk why i feel this way because he's never made it seem that way and he tells me how much he likes me all the time, but I can feel myself acting a little different at times and I don't know how to stop it... Like im not being some crazy controlling GF who freak out about things or anything like that, just little subtle things and I really dont want to stress about it!!!! I want to enjoy the relationship with out worrying about what might happen
Any advice ladies??
Fri Oct 16 2009 - 11:58 pm
oooh jessica, this love & relationship business is more confusing than i gave it credit for. i dont really have much advice for you (sorry), but just want to say that if you're still, you can probably hear the voice inside that tells you the truth you need to hear..
the other little voices, the insecure ones, their just liars and dont know what their talking about.. you keep being yourself, he likes you.. you like him.. let it happen.
i could be giving myself the same freaking advice right now. maybe i'll take it.
laura
Sat Oct 17 2009 - 08:18 am
I think youre looking too far into the future and are pulling back just in case you think you could get hurt.
Im doing the same in my relationship too.
What you need to do, is to put those feelings aside when you are with him and just enjoy what you have at the moment. Things will work themselves out.
Sat Oct 17 2009 - 02:17 pm
We can be our worst enemy when it comes to affairs of the heart. If you stay busy in other areas of your life, don't center you whole world around him and take responsibility for your own happiness, it will be easier. I am about to take a mini vacation with some of the ladies here. There was time in my life that I would not want to leave a man that was in my life behind. No more. The men or man in my life should be just as worried about me while I am away as I would be about them.
Advice above it right on, just enjoy the moment, stop thinking of instant gratification and think long term satisfaction. Let if flow naturally. Its those insecurties that usually wreck the relationship.
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