Sleeping Together!!!!!!
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 01:50 am
HI PAIGE
MY QUESTION IS I HAVE BEEN SEENING THIS MAN FOR ABOUT A 4 MONTH NOW.
HE ASK ME FOR MY PHONE NUMBER AND WAS CALL ME ALL THE THE TIME.
SUDDLENLY THE PHONE CALL STOP, UNTIL I SEEN HIM AGAIN. WE MADE A DATE TO SEE ONE ANOTHER.
WELL, SOMETHING CAME UP AND WE DIDN'T SEE ONE ANOTHER THAT NIGHT. TWO DAY WENT BY AND WE MADE PLANS TO SEE ONE ANOTHER AGAIN. I MEET HIM AT HIS JOB. ONE THING LEAD TO ANOTHER, WELL U KNOW WHAT HAPPEN. AFTER, WE HAD A LONG CONVERSATION. OVER THE TIME WE TALK ON THE PHONE OR TEXT I HAVE FALLEN FOR HIM. A GOOD CONVERSATION WITH A MAN IS A BIG TURN ON FOR ME. I WOULD GO TO HIS HOUSE AFTER WORK SINCE I GET OFF AT MIDNIGHT, AND I WOULD LEAVE UNTIL PROBABLY 5 OR 6AM, WE HAVE NOT WENT OUT ON A DATE, THE ONLY TIME WE SEE ONE ANOTHER IS WHEN HE COME TO MY JOB TO PICK UP PACKAGE, OR WHEN I GO TO HIS HOUSE. I HAVE FALLEN FOR THIS MAN, AND HE KNOW HOW I FEEL. I HAVE WENT AS FAR TO ASKING HIM HOW HE FEEL ABOUT ME, BUT HE AVOID THE QUESTION AT ALL COST. I DO BELEIVE THEIRS AN ANOTHER WOMAN IN THE PICTURE, BUT WHERE IS SHE IF I'M THEIR OVERNIGHT. HE DON'T TXT MY OVER THE WEEKEND, HELL HE DON'T TEXT ME ANYMORE UNLESS I TEXT HIM. I WOULD LIKE TO KNOW IF I'M WASTING MY TIME WITH THIS MAN, CAUSE HE JUST SEE ME AS A BOOTIE CALL, OR CAN HE HAVE FEELING FOR ME. I DO KNOW FOR A FACT THAT HE HAVE REAL BIG TRUST ISSUES. AT TIME HE ACT AS IF HE CARES, THEN HE GET REAL COLD.
THANKS
Fool in Love
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 01:40 pm
#2
Nikkee...he doesn't want a rel with you! You are just a booty call! I am very sorry! This is how my rel ended...that is me going to his house only...no dates...etc....LET HIM GO HONEY AND MOVE ON TO THE NEXT GUY!
I know this won't be easy...but do it for yourself!
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 01:57 pm
#3
yeah--what they said
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 06:42 pm
#4
i agree with tinydancer and with the NC rule have some boundaries. if he does contact you dont demand or have expectations on him...see how that works
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 06:47 pm
#5
what they said! it seems to be unamimous!
Go into no contact mode. It sounds a bit like you're chasing this man. I wouldn't call, text, email, or IM him at all. Then see how long it takes him to contact you. If two weeks later, he sends you a text at 10pm, then you know exactly where you stand--that you're a booty call.
Sorry to say, but it doesn't sound particuarly promising. Remember, if a man is truly interested in you, he will be contacting you REGULARLY to take you out on ACTUAL DATES. Not dates at his house, not late night rendezvous. Actual dates, like out to dinner, or out to see a movie, or what have you.