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sex on a second date? :/

Sat Jul 18 2009 - 01:47 am

well, i have been known this guy about 1,5 years but we met on the net.. We met in real life once about 8 months ago but couldnt make the second date because we are living distant and both very busy.. Recently we were chatting again and the issue came to sex and we both found ourselves talking about making out and how we would do it.. I really want to have sex with him so much, so is he, but it will be our kind of second date and sometimes I think will it be too early or do I seem too cheap.. any ideas pleaseee!!! :)

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Sat Jul 18 2009 - 03:47 am

This is the mixed signals portion the love Guru's talk about, you want a strong, loving healthy relationship, but sending signals letting him know, you want what seems to be casual sex with him.

When it turned to sex chat, you should have deployed your boundaries, letting him know, you enjoy sex but sex has to be with your exclusive partner. There are times when men only hear sex and hang around for that reason only. If casual sex is not what you seek right now, need to let him know and stop the sex chat.

After all, you haven't made it to the second date yet, thus far the relationship has been long distance talk.

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