REMEMBER YOUR FIRST LOVE?
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 11:54 am
Although I am not ready to share right now, I thought this would be a subject many have stories to tell about. We'd all love to here your special story. :)
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 11:59 am
I think this is a cute idea, although I don't have time to invest into it right now either..but I will later.
It will be interesting to compare where we started out to where we ended...with "types" of men that is!!!
Also, to talk about what it meant to us then...at our young, naive age...haha!
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 12:23 pm
Me, too when I have time and mine's name was Tommy, same as Audrey's. How ironic.
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 12:26 pm
How funny that you share that in common...she was just talking about him!
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 12:45 pm
TOMMY was my first love. He was 21 and I was 17 and had just started college. Tommy and I met at a WINE BAR in the neighborhood.
He was gorgeous - tall, dark and Teddy-Bear-handsome, beautiful brown eyes, gainfully employed; an electrician and a biker.
OOH-LA...LA!!!
He started talking to me and he was with another couple: the guy was his best friend and the guy's woman.
Tommy and I dated and had great fun. We double-dated often.
Many times all four of us went to the beach at night. We would part ways and meet up later.
Tommy and I did that DRY HUMPING thing on the beach. Oh! My! Until one day he just ripped off my jeans...
And you all know what happens when it's YOUR FIRST TIME, right?
He gathered up the beach blanket at the end of that evening and we had been in the other couple's car. He kissed me good-Night and I just wanted to cry...
He called me at my house and my mom told him that I was not home.
He called me at my GF's house and said he would pick me up.
I had gone to the dry cleaners but that didn't matter to him.
I was so thrilled that he did that!!!
BUT THEN, when we got back to my house he said that he needed to tell me something.
he told me that the other guy, his best friend was married...BUT NOT to the woman that we had been with double-dating.
I was so innocent and naive. I said that it was OK; that's they're issue...
The next time, he came over. he took me to the Old World's Fair grounds here in Queens. We sat on the base of the UNISPHERE - I couldn't climb that thing now if you paid me.
We talked and laughed and smooched and then he took me on the bike to a lovely area nearby and he sat me down...
He asked if I remembered the story he told me about his friend. of course, I said. then he shared that he had a GF in Connecticut all along. I just looked at him. he told me that he was at that wine bar and the other couple having an affair thought that he should too.
So, he met me...
He told me that I was such a wonderful person that he needed to tell me the truth. I just looked at him...
A few months later, I was out with GF's and there was a live band performing (no dancing) AND THERE HE WAS.
He made a point of passing my table and he tenderly touch my long brown hair. I felt that tingle... i just turned around and looked at him:)
Auds
xoxox
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 12:43 pm
Auds...I am running out of tissues here!!! What an amazing love story. Did you ever find out what happened to him?
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 12:53 pm
YES! darlin, I did.
Years later when I was in my 30's, I was working in the City at Citibank.
There was one day that we needed to move because they were fixing the electricity in our office.
Twilight-zoney coming up....okay?
I asked one of the workers if he knew Tommy Zach. He told me that he did. My main man, Zach, was the SUPERVISOR of them ALL.
He lives in Monroe, upstate NY with his wife a few kids.
i just smiled because that was always tommy's dream - to live in Monroe...AND HE DID. Another man with a passion!!!
He didn't marry THAT girl from CT; it was someone else:)))
Auds
xoxox
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 01:20 pm
At least you had some closure knowing how it all ended. :) Good for you and what a freaking small world!!!
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 05:37 pm
2nd Grade - Walter Dourant! LOL I can't believe I can remember!
Mon Nov 16 2009 - 07:25 pm
Auds,
That was sooo sweet... and I had déjà vu.
My first love was a guy who was singing in a band.
My best friend was a girl who was considered gorgeous, every guy's dream. Everywhere we went, guys were flocking all over her. I was used to not get any attention like the ugly duckling.
One night, we went dancing with life band and there this guy was- the singer, tall, blond, blue eyed, handsome, sexy and all girls were all over him. Break time he starts walking towards my GF and me and I was thinking to myself " Wow, he noticed Neli (my GF). Maybe if they hook up we can go to concerts for free" . He comes straight to us and is not even looking at her. He starts talking to me and asked me to stay to the end because he wanted to talk to me and maybe walk me home. Back home, that was sign the guy is asking you out. Wow, I was so excited to be noticed by a "celebrity" and a handsome guy at that, needless to say it was love from first sight. I fail hard, just insane for this guy and few months later, one thing led to another and we did it. He knew he was my first and was very gentle and sweet. Later I realized his attention span was pretty short with the girls. I couldn't hold on to him for too long. Of course the fact that I was totally smitten didn't help, since I was not a challenge anymore, he moved on. He never really let me know, so I used to go to places I knew he would be, just to see him. Took 3 years to figure out that he is gone.
Tue Nov 17 2009 - 12:55 am
Buits...but not in your heart. awwww. BTW, I feel honored that you came over here as you pretty much stay home (Goddess thread). ;) Love your story!! I have a funny one that involved the lead guitarist of a band when I was a teenager...just not now. :)Tired, long and rough day at work.
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