Perspectives on Dating Women Should Know
Thu Oct 15 2009 - 12:59 am
I share relationship advice all the time with my female friends, just pointers, tips and things to look for when things just don't seem to add up in their relationships.
You'd be surprised to know how much women take for granted when it comes to dating and men. In fact, it would blow your mind!
Since we men tend to be such "visual creatures", it's not at all hard to decode our behavior. As perceptive and femininely "intuitive" as most women claim to be, shockingly few have a firm handle on how to make their relationships stronger.
Dating advice isn't about "tricks" or "subterfuge" - it's about knowing what to do to make what you have even stronger.
Most people, male and female, want to be in relationships based on mutual attraction, respect and love. Knowing how to attract that special someone is not something we are born with - it's cultivated over time.
Now don't get me wrong, no one knows everything there is to know about dating and relationships, but some know a whole lot more than others!
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Fri Oct 16 2009 - 06:55 am
Uh-oh, party-crasher?
Sun Oct 18 2009 - 12:02 pm
Yep, he could at least build up a relationship and trust with us first.
Sun Oct 18 2009 - 06:30 pm
sell, sell, sell! you can't blame the guy for trying, after all this is a great venue. :)
Wed Oct 21 2009 - 06:16 pm
Robin, LMAO.. touche!!
Very good come back....
Mon Oct 26 2009 - 11:08 pm
I'm hardly a "party crasher". I live in NYC and see so many unhappy and miserable women all the time, and ninety-nine times out of a hundred, the source of their misery is a man, or not having one. I'm dead serious!
I give my female friends relationship advice and tips all the time, FOR FREE! Dr. Phil has nothing on me! I provide therapy, help them with their homework in their college courses(I hold a B.A. in Economics), and basically provide the "red leather couch", all on my own time and dime.
So I think it's a little unfair for you ladies to characterize me so quickly. And yes, I would love to get to know all of you better, what makes you tick, what makes you sad, what turns you off about the men you date. Feel free to share and I would be more than happy to provide my insight and "take" on any situation you come across.
God Bless
Mon Oct 26 2009 - 11:15 pm
Hi Robin,
What's going on in NC? I'm in NYC, but don't hold that against me. So how is dating treating you? And what part of the Tar Heel State(my older brother loves the Heels and reveres Dean Smith) do you live in?
I'm a single guy with very few guy friends - most of my friends happen to be women of all races. They tend to like my honesty and ability to cut to the core of any matter. I guess they like my "realness", if you will.
In any event, it's nice meeting you. I'd love to learn more about your perspective on dating and why men and women seem so at odds these days - many men treat women poorly and many women are a bit superficial and "dreamy-eyed". I think there's a great divide between the sexes and neither does much work trying to better understand the other. That's just my opinion, of course, nothing etched in stone.
I look forward to hearing from you.
God's Blessings & Safety,
Carl
Mon Oct 26 2009 - 11:20 pm
Carl,
As RC said, "Yep, he could at least build up a relationship and trust with us first."
You entered the site peddling wares, without an introduction, what is one to think?
Mon Oct 26 2009 - 11:20 pm
I'm not trying to "sell, sell, sell" so much as help. I give dating advice all the time, FOR FREE! I happen to know a lot about male-female relationships, and anytime I can provide valuable insight to a male or female, I try to.
My aim is to see men and women in less violent relationships and in more stable and happy ones, to be quite honest.
Living in NYC, I see the worst of the worst - and it's not pretty!
I hope things turn around for people as far as positive relationships. Anything you feel like asking me, please do. I'm all ears and will provide the most valuable insight I possibly can. I'm no expert, but having dated older women most of my adult life, I know a few things about them.
God Bless
Mon Oct 26 2009 - 11:24 pm
Ebonnee, how goes it?
I saw no need for a "comeback", as I never offended or insulted anyone. I merely made a posting which was generic and non-threatening. The reason I made the posting I did is illustrated in your response to what Robin said - an undercurrent of anger when none is necessary.
I hope I'm wrong and I hope I can be of service to all on this blog. My intentions are sincere and without malice.
God Bless
Tue Oct 27 2009 - 01:00 am
ask...I have one verrrry important question for you. Are you a Yankee fan? Now be careful how you answer...;) Welcome, regardless.
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