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OH MY GOD, NERVES ARE SHATTERED LOL

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niavedater's picture
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Joined: Oct 12 2009

Hi just recent seperated after years together, met a fella in a bar at weekend and the chemistry was amazing, we just stared at eachother, we exchanged numbers talked for a while and he kissed me, i melted, he lives an hour away from me and is desperate to meet up but has been texting with slighty forward text re sex, as i have been out of hte dating game so long i dont know if hes being too forward or just finds me totally hot as he said, any suggestions, thanks

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Joined: Apr 22 2009

"what kind of girl do you think I are, the kind that you meet in a bar."

He is hot isn't he? Married, single other, looking for love in all the wrong places, what is his deal? Familiar very fast wouldn't you think? Does he go around kissing women he doesn't know?

Has nothing to do with how long you have been in or out of the dating game, are his sexy text viewed as disresepectful to you or not? All depends how you feel and what you want. You can guess he is out for sex, nothing new there, if you want a different response from him, do not play into the sexting, although cute, adds a little fun, deploy your boundaries, what you are willing to allow and not allow. I view sexting only special from a solid foundation in my life, new jacks cannot become familiar too fast, turn off for me.

Sorry didn't mean for that to come off as rude, just be aware, it could be his M.O. the way he operates and not mean much to him for a chance at sex with someone new.