not capable

Thanks for all your response, this is a guy that i already had a relationship with, and in the past told me he loved me many times, he is also a musician. As you know they are on another planet, although i have business in the world of music as well. We were together, I broke up, back together again, i broke up again, and he had a realtionship with another woman, after two years he broke up with her, kinda wanted to come back to me, but i did not ask him to come back, and now when i ask him about his feelings, he says he is not capable of loving anyone.

Thank you so much Trace for your reply, are you a man or a woman? just curious. I guess my problem is, that I want the thing that I cannot have, and it is driving me crazy! He is also 13 years younger than me, but that has never seemed to be an issue with us, we are both attractive people, and he is a very very talented musician, hense, i am also attracted to the image. I am also attracted to passion, since i am a passionate person myself, he is a latino, I am not. Your comments are correct in your outlook, you might say, that this is an addiction of some sort, but, in the last month, since we last talked, he has not called, and I refuse to call him, so looks like stalemate, or checkmate, as they say in chess, who will have the next move? not me, so it may be another five months before we run into each other again. my problem is that I do not have the desire to start something new with someone else, only friends, have not met anyone in the last 2 years, that I would consider being with.