Sophie, I am so glad that you posted:

"My instructor, who I had to confide in because of a test grade, is really wonderful and we talked for a while during the event about how I am doing. She has been so helpful just to listen."

For every problem there is a solution!
Auds xoxox

Annalisa, yours was a GREAT Goddess response:
"My date was with a tall, dark and handsome carpenter adored and worshiped by millions!"

Absolutely wonderful:)
Auds xoxox

Lady Bird,

Let me tell you a little bit about why I am here.

two and a half years ago, against my better judgement, I started dating cooked green peppers. He was seperated for the second time from his wife of twenty years. He owned his own house and has a good job. I thought he was stable. We fell in love very quickly. He wanted to sell his house and move in with me. I asked my roomate to move out because he said he could not live there if she was still there. I have since found out that he did not even file for divorce yet at this point. It took him two months. I was not allowed to meet his daughters for a year and a half.

He had to wait a year to get divorced, but he left me a month before it was final. I was devestated. I found the secret and manifested him back into my life, becareful what you wish for. It was hard going as I really don't think he truly wanted to be there. His house was still on the market. He did through a 50th birthday party for me. Things were starting to go good at thie point. I had finally met the daughters and was having a good relationship with them, slowly, but surely.

So, he gets an offer on his house and starts moving his stuff in. The deal feel through,blessing really, and he starts getting skiddish again, not calling so often, not showing up when he says he will, less texting etc.... He has his younger daughter for the month of July and we are doing stuff like a family. It was wonderful.

I am making this too long. Anyway, the ex-wife is horrible and always has him jumping through hoops. The girls love their Mother and do the same. Finally she tells him that she does not want the girls to see me anymore and he agrees. I am sure there is more to this than I realize but I have not been told. Two weeks later he sends me an email telling me it is over. I have not spoken to him since. I actually only saw him once on his way to work.

Stay away from recently divorced men. They do not know what they have to go through emotionally when they get divorced. It is way to hard to invest 2 and 1/2 years for nothing.

Hi Annalisa,

That's why I say write a closure letter that neither says you want him back nor blaming him. Instead, thanking him for the experience that has caused her to be a stronger and happier person. I agree writing a closure letter with a theme of possibly getting back together isn't good at all.