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It is so nice to see how we may start out as so sad and upset and then through the support from this forum, become stronger and happier! We are all so blessed to have happened upon this site and each other.

Voodoo Warriors, hahaha. That is too cute. I have such funny mental images of this event...I wish I could come! Somebody take a video camera and film it...I'm sure I'm not the only one who'd love it!

 
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Cyclingchick....I have been saying that for weeks....there is a whole lot of healing going on here and a whole lot of miracles. It truly is. I have a video camera. Robin we should put a website together where we could post....no that's not a good idea.

My match profile says I've never had a picture taken that I wouldn't want posted on the internet.....Atlantic City could very well change all that!

We'll email copies to those who would like to see

Gotta fly....be back soon!

 
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Have a great night everyone, stay strong and NC. It really means alot to me to know I can come here and feel so much better about myself. Thanks

 
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About AC, I think I should contact that host and ask for about five rooms. We can always cancel. I'll e-mail both sip and Robin to see where we stand, OK?

Auds xoxoxox

 
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Just e-mailed you, sip. I'll send Robin a copy.

 

Okay girls...I just got back from my dads, and he is not going on those dates...but he said it will take me about 5.2 hours to drive there. I am going to try and get a girlfriend of mine to come with me...Putting in for vacation tomorrow...and keep me updated on the plans. I am getting excited I really what to make the trip, It will do US all some good...
Take Care and will be back later or tomorrow!!

Cheers
Widow Mom!

 
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I am exited widow mom, glad you can come. Nothing likd a woman on a mission.

 
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Mahoney..

Im not strong..just sick of the B.S. Like u I cant keep wondering..i wanna know the deal so I can either re-open or close this chapter in my life..He hasent gotton back to me yet which is wearing on my nerves..I have not contacted today..infact I havent talked to him since Sunday..But we emailed eachother yesturday..so today is day 1..Im just giving him space and time to think

Ok everyones got their own situation..it depeneds on what u want..U should express ur expectations then let him simmer on it..and I dont mean place demands on his emotions..let him be in control but at the same time he cant walk in and out of your life(if thats what he is doing) ..I nicely told mine there is no need to keep me in his life at arms lenght..I could take it or leave it..my story is complicated..so with u be very nice..but if u must know where it is going then I would simply ask nicely..If u dont like the answer..simply say ok I respect your decison..thats what Im gonna do..Im gonna pull a complete 180 and shock him..im not gonna ask any questions, argue, or try to convience him otherwise..the decisons that men mostly regret are the ones they are not forced to make..So I basically advised him of where I stand..im not gonna keep guessing and play a game of cat and mouse..Screw that..I do miss him and want it to work..but damn ..im not waiting around either..Its a simple question..If they are so damn confused that they cant give u an answer they dont belong in your life ..period!!! If they are not in your life they dont have the ability to hurt u..So I say go with ur gut..DWD states to never bring up the relationship..but In my case I had to bend the rules..so its up to u depending on ur situation..be firm but nice..they will respect u for it in the end and u will have your answers

 
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Girls I gotta go pick up a pizza for my son..lol..but I will be back to catch up on the stories..I miss u guys..i havent had internet access so I havent been able to be on here!! Be back in about 20 minutes..xoxoxoxoxo

 
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Shiana, you compel me to start a thread called Pants on Fire!
Share some pizza with ya? I see you had some nerve-wearing going on.
Yep, no need to keep you in his life at arm's length.
Yep, do a 180 and he can play the guessing "game" and the cat-n-mouse "game".
Simple question - Do you love me? Simple answer and not confusing at all. It's not a trick question!?!
You say, I CAN SEE THAT YOU'RE STILL CONFUSED. CYA.
Strut away with a smile on your face like you are the cat that ate the canary.

Pants on Fire thread:
J walks down the driveway and keeps you on the phone for hours, he's in pursuit.
You ask him,"Are you available and unattached?"
He says,"Of course."
Fast forward >> He's secretive. He's made a decision to stay in business with "wife" The business is his baby. That's priority; not you.
PANTS ON FIRE.. (liar, liar) because you are EMOTIONALLY UNavailable.
Hand me a slice, darling,pls.... Your turn.