NC Part 2. Life After What's His Name
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 09:47 am
Ok,
All you who have graduated from No Contact and made it to the other side, this is where we discuss our new experiences in our new lives without what's his name.
I had my first meet and greet as Buitiful calls it, with a man from Match last night. We met for drinks. He was attractive and polite and seemed to have his head on straight, then he pulled out his snuff and loaded up his cheek. Spit it in an empty beer bottle. So ladies, is this a deal breaker?
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 11:43 am
holy bejeebus, yes that is a deal breaker for me for sure. Robin! You are too classy for that behavior, I don't like it, it is rude and to do it on a first date!!!!
Argh!
I have broken through to the other side but royally screwed up my second date by sleeping with the guy, however, even if the buy who I now like does not call...at least I am done with Simon, aka, a*hole.
;)
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 12:25 pm
I know. What a shame, how do you tell a guy you can't go out with him because he chews snuff.
Divina, just keep that attitude, next. There will be a next. I hate having to plow through these men all over again.
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 12:32 pm
Dropping a guy that chews snuff? Seems like that would be one of the easier things to do! HA!
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 12:33 pm
Just don't go on a second date with the guy, really, your time is precious.
:)
I am serious!
Also be sure to follow the DWD rules and go out with a few guys, that way we will not get too obsessed with any one man.
:)
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 12:48 pm
Oh, don't worry about that, I have more than one hook in the water.
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 12:49 pm
Hi Everyone,
I've been away for Labor Day weekend and had a wonderful time with friends. CHILLAXING!!!
Well, my GF listened to swiss miss' B-Day voice mail to me and started to tear. She said that he definitely cares for me and that I should have called him before he starts his business travel again. More positive feedback from her...
Then my cousin drops by and she listened to it as well. Her opinion was quite the opposite - she thought he was stringing me along - a push-pull kni d of thing.
Either way I haven't heard from him and if he doesn't try harder then, I guess, my cousin is right. Not enough effort and so I stay in No Contact.
We have confirmation for four FREE rooms in AC Oct 23-25 from Sonny.
Jump over to the AC thread if you are interested in coming, OK?
Auds xoxox
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 01:37 pm
Duplicate post.
Buitifil.....Thanks for the warm welcome back and the warning about those Mojitos! Too late, I finished off the bucket last night!
Will go to the "ugly" thread you started if I can find it, that would be a great place to post "their" alter egos (the name list).
Robin....thanks for the new thread, we must keep the first archived.....we will need it later (hint, hint).
Got the good word on the rooms in A/C, I'm envisioning a check in my mailbox that will pay for my flight so I can win a huge jackpot and buy a laptop so I can start my reading business and my foundation and send my daughter to Ohio State in 12 years......better be a BIG jackpot!
Hope you all are having a great day, been a while since the Calvary had to talk someone off of the ledge.....that's a good thing!
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 02:39 pm
Robin...
Please don't go out on a second date...First Date Snuff...second date be prepared for gas passing!
Question for ya...about the N/C before I get into detail with the "NEW" guy.
I am well over 30 days of me NOT contacting the jerk...but he still contacts me (just last night while sitting on my porch with the new guy) I got a txt from the jerk.
I want to make sure I have graduated!!
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 02:52 pm
I think you have graduated Widow Mom!!!!
Tue Sep 08 2009 - 06:36 pm
This may be a stupid question, but how do we archive that thread?
Inspiration Story:
Connect w/ Paige
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