lost without words
Fri Oct 23 2009 - 08:41 pm
ive been in a relationship for about 3 years already ...but ever sense 7 months ago that my boyfriend had to move to north carolina weve beeen carrying out a long distance relationship but things have been going rocky for us i feel that when we have a argument of anytype he acts like he doesnt care for me and i feel like he doesnt love me the way he says he does ....i feel as if i love him more than he loves and sometimes has me feeling as if hell get over me in a heart beat . i want to make him fall head over heals for me again and make him feel and realize what it is to have me before its to late....i feel like im not always appreciated as a girl friend i do so much for him when we are together i cook i clean his room i wash his clothes iron his clothes make him desserts the whole deal ....i dont know to do.
Sat Oct 24 2009 - 02:23 am
Make yourself scarce, and quickly! Remember the "men want what seems out of their reach rule" and if he doesn't come seeking you, out - move on! Ask yourself what is he doing for you in exchange; don't be a "free" housekeeper f/ him. If you haven't done so, go and fill out the dating contract and adhere to it. Love yourself, first and foremost!
Sat Oct 24 2009 - 05:28 am
'i feel like im not always appreciated as a girl friend i do so much for him when we are together i cook i clean his room i wash his clothes iron his clothes make him desserts the whole deal ....i dont know to do'.
Stop acting like a housekeeper or his mother! This 'look what I am doing for you, why don't you love me' act NEVER works. It is all about give AND take.
I very much recommend you to read 'Why Men Love Bitches: From Doormat to Dreamgirl - A Woman's Guide to Holding Her Own in a Relationship'.
Lots of love,
Wise_until_it_happened_to_me
Wed Oct 28 2009 - 11:46 pm
ya girly its HE who needs to appreciate you and realise your worthy but if he is blind not to realise it its his loss...u know the old saying u only have control over ur own actions so i believe u cant MAKE him fall in love or MAKE him realise....he needs to have that maturity and brains for that matter to see wat a wonderful thing he has in life....
I like SMERKs idea of being scarce....ur life shouldnt revolve arnd him honestly u have ur own and mayb and hopefully he'll see that and turn things around...
hope all works out....let us know....
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