Hi Ladies,
I wrote this letter to myself today and wanted to share it with you. It is an accumulation of things I have been thinking and reading lately.

It is now time for you to surrender control. You are only responsible for your own actions, not others’. Their behavior should not make you feel bad. They must deal with their actions and consequences, not you. You cannot be the whole world for everybody. They must be responsible for themselves.

In your dealings with other people, put out a friendly, positive, loving vibe, but do not get too involved with other people’s problems. By relying too much on other people, you give them power over you. By advising others too much, you are avoiding your own problems.

You are an adult now, and it does no good to blame anyone for what has happened, including yourself. You could not have done any better at the time or you would have. You have always done the best you could with the knowledge you had at the time.

Continue to move forward in positive, loving, and self-focused ways. Trust the people who have proven themselves trustworthy. Believe that good things will happen if you work towards them. But remember you can not force anything to happen: you can not make anything happen. Recognize that whatever will be will be and trust in the process.

Each day you can be working towards a change that little by little will lead to a much better life. Ask for what you need and you are more likely to get it. Love only those who love you and love yourself the most. Live the best life you possibly can and have compassion for those who are not able to.

Find peace in solitude and in happy moments, smiles, and hugs. Your truest friends will always allow you to be who you are while motivating you to be happier, healthier, and holier.