knowing a guys mind
Thu Oct 15 2009 - 07:02 pm
after being on your first date and your still getting to know each other and he tells you that he thought you were really hot.is that him saying that what he really wants is to get you into bedanother.its driving me mad trying to work out what this guy was after. another thing i questioned was that when we slept together he asked me how i liked it now i dunno if this is a guy who puts his partner first to pleasing her or is it something else.i dont mean to come across as being niave. each relationship in have been in they have all been different two men in my life to be exact. i think it could be me thats made this relationship more difficult and i need help to turn it around and let this guy see that im in it for the long haul.
Fri Oct 16 2009 - 02:55 pm
You had one date and you slept with him? Why, may I ask?? Men want sex...but some men want that along with a solid relationship. I am thinking maybe talk to him and tell him you jumped the gun and don't want to blur the reasons you are with him with sex this early on and that your goal is long term and see what his goal is. You want to talk since you don't want him to think you're a tease and that's all there is to you, see?
Fri Oct 16 2009 - 02:56 pm
p.s. it's about pleasing each other, isn't it? ;)
Fri Oct 16 2009 - 03:04 pm
Personally, I usually suspect when a guy says I am hot on the first date that he just wants sex. It is not that he does not want a relationship, its just that he wants sex. The sooner the better
While I love being "hot" (lol) I prefer he come to appreciate me as a person before I can trust him with my body. I say trust because I do have some personal and medical issues that make sleeping with a guy I hardly know a really bad idea.
Well, the deed is done and you can't undo it. Sometimes a guy you sleep with right away works out, but I give it about 3%. Unless you have an established friendship that has caught fire. We will see.
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