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IF YOU ARE A MAN TROLLING THIS SITE, STOP HERE FIRST

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Ok, if you are a man trolling this site and are not a member please take a moment to read this. We have men on here that are here for admirable reasons. We want to keep it that way. If you are here to seek information about a lady in your past or present please do so with caution. Curiosity killed the cat they say.

This forum is very personal to us. Some great friendships and bonds have developed here. It is close to sacred ground for some of us. We are women and we are here talking about things that for some reason we could not or can not talk to you about. Or maybe we just chose not too. Women talk, its just what we do and you as a man should already know that.

What we say here is private to us and we ask that you respect that and leave before you go further if you intentions are anything less than honorable. We are all fabulous women and we ask that you respect our privacy. Its kind of like going in our purses or us going through you wallet, you just don't do it.

If you want to join and put you two cents in, then welcome.

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I am going to keep this on top if I have to do it myself. I know I am being trolled, so here ya go.

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I'm in. This needs to stay at the very top.

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Back off and be a man. That's all I am going to say today

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I'm in too.

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Thanks ladies.

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I hope any guys reading these posts will learn something they didn't know before and become better boyfriends and husbands for it! I agree - this site is sacred ground for us and because we don't all know each other 'off-site' so to speak, it's easier to give advice that isn't suger coated 'just to be nice'. I for one want to give and receive advice that is honest and workable not just there to make me feel blameless and a little bit better.

:) Cheers, to keeping it on top!

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Thanks Gretel

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Same here...This site has done so much for us, so let's not let any Guy ruin it!!! Nice one Robin.

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Look at it this way girls - if some saddo is here trolling, at least it's stopping him going out and wasting the time of 'real life' ladies. (And you never know, he might learn something!)

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That is very true.

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I'm here to support this thread. I found this DWD site that has amazing members and with whom I've shared many personal relationship experiences. We are here to heal and help each other to heal. We've had to explain our situations to get the support that we needed.

As Robin so politely put it:If you are here to seek information about a lady in your past or present please do so with caution.

Kudos to you, Robin:)))
Auds xoxox

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"As Robin so politely put it:If you are here to seek information about a lady in your past or present please do so with caution.

Kudos to you, Robin:)))"

Agreed.

There's a saying 'Those who eavesdrop seldom hear any good of themselves'. Safe to say the same about those who snoop...:-)

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What goes round, comes round! Be warned Boyo!!!!

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lol loveulongtime.

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U can read the posts on this site without being a member? thats scary!!!!

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Robin, how do you know that someone is trolling you? And are you certain that that is the term you mean to use. I thought an internet troll was someone who kind of baited you in the forum posts. I guess I'm not understanding something here.

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You can find anything on the internet and this is what I found --
WiseGeek says: An Internet troll is someone who posts offensive, controversial, or divisive material on an Internet community. Trolls are an unfortunately common occurrence on many communities across the Internet, and there are various steps which can be taken to combat them. If you are currently struggling with an Internet troll, the best thing to do is to walk away, since trolls feed on attention, and they will usually disappear if they are ignored.

The evolution of the Internet troll was a slow process which began as computer users started to more widely adopt the Internet. At first, the term referred merely to someone who was “trolling” for a response or opinion, in the same way that fishing boats cast out large nets to troll for a catch. Over time, trolls grew more aggressive, and the term began to be used specifically to refer to someone irritating or hurtful. In this sense, a troll could be compared to the nasty creatures of Scandinavian mythology which are also known as trolls.

So, should we say lurking or spying???

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Lurking.

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WARNING! WARNING! WARNING!

To any man trolling and snooping around this site, there is whole lot of GODDESS going on here and unless you have something constructive to add to any of the conversations, then I suggest you go back to your cave.

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Sip when I read you WARNING WARNING WARNING, I just kenw you were going to threaten to put pins in a dolls eyes. lol

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Where the heck did I put those PINS???...lolol

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Hey girls,

There are other place we can pins in... OUCH!

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Robin,

By the time we're finished with them, we'll have them standing in line for a doll of themselves and sticking those pins in voluntarily.

Trolls and lurkers:

Robin is currently taking orders for the dolls and obviously, you know how to contact her.

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Yall crack me up.

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Just posting to keep this on top.

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Back up to the top we go.

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so, we get back on the top

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I hope it's not the guy I met in AC that's lurking around DWD as an imposter... his name is Eric. Eric is that YOU?

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If someone is here trying to spy, I hope they find what they are looking for. You know, the curiosity that killed the cat... LOL

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I thik Eric gave up looking for me. But Lenny, are you still coming to AC? Remember THE KISS, Lenny....?
Auds xoxox

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Back to the top ya go.

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yep Im in damn dont get me started.lol

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You women need to be able to recognize the warning signs, I have more fun messing with the weirdo's heads than they do. Im so mean, and pride myself on how much crap these freaks will take from me, before they go away!!!!!! If you have any doubts on anyone, Google their name, or any screen name they use, you will find that they have more than one account, on myspace, or whatever. trust me I have done it with several, men, and when their caught they deny it, until you email them on the account that they claimed not to have. I used to be a correctional officer, at the state prison for men, back in NH, did it for 4 yrs. I have heard every cheap line, and more B/S than you can imagine. Check out anyone you have a gut feeling about, or even anyone you have feelings for, hell if they are above board, theres nothing to hide is there?

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Hopefully they'll learn something....Women in Arms......together....

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ok, so how can we post this on all the headliners? not just under Break ups? I think that this is a good read for the entire forum not just a specific area of it!

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Good queston, I am thinking.

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"Abondon all hope yea who enter here"

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A bond on all hope...ye who enter here? Praising the stalkers???? Hope NOT!

Sorry, couldn't help it. Typo was ironically very funny!

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studio, you have a very interesting mind. Thats a compliment.

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I hope she is not angry about mentioning the typos. I think they are marvelous!

My bf, when I was emailing him on match said that e-mail was not "insantaneous"....I told him I disagreed, e-mail can sometimes be insantaneous! More sniglets for my collection!

He does this alot....sometimes on purpose. But we both laugh about it. Hopefully VN will see I mean no harm. I really do like it! I thought perhaps they were on purpose too!

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Trolls and lurkers:
You might just learn something about yourself in here.
as Grandma use to say If u spy you might here something you didnot want to know ....LOL

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Yep! I do think of you,[ name here] And if YOU ARE ON HERE peeking then, guess what, SO ARE YOU!

Auds
P.S. Yes, it's ME. (told you I was good at "research")

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funny icon Pictures, Images and Photos

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Very cool!!!

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Back to the top again!!!!

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Back up to the top!!

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Love that sign, Robin: Trespassers will be PROSTITUTED! LOL

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It could have said castrated!!!