I DON'T GET HIM
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 04:23 pm
OK...I WAS WITH THIS GUY THAT ALL OF A SUDDEN STOP TALKING TO ME FOR THOSE PEOPLE THAT DONT KNOW MY PAST RELATIONSHIP. WELL I GOT OVER HIM. . . . SO NOW I'M JUST MEETING NEW GUYS. WELL I HAVEN'T DONE ANYTHING FOR LIKE 2 MONTHS AND I REALLY WANT TO. MY EX AND ME STILL KINDA TALK SOMETIMES. SO I DECIDED TO TALK TO HIM ABOUT YOU KNOW BEING FRIENDS BUT MESSING AROUND. I TOLD HIM STAIGHT OUT I WAS OVER HIM AND I JUST WANTED TO BE FRIENDS. HE WAS OK WITH IT. AND LOVED THE IDEA OF JUST MESSING AROUND. . . WHAT GUY WOULDN'T . WELL I WAS TALKING TO THIS OTHER GUY AND HE KNEW ABOUT IT. THINGS DIDN'T REALLY WORK OUT WITH HIM. SO I WAS LIKE WHATEVER AND MOVED ON. . . . SO FINALLY MY EX AND I MEET UP TO MESS AROUND. I DON'T TELL HIM ANYTHING ABOUT MY LOVE LIFE AND I DON'T ASK HIM ABOUT HIS. . . .
WHEN I GOT TO HIS HOUSE I FELT NOTHING JUST A FRIENDSHIP FEELING. HE STARTED CUDDLING WITH ME WHEN WE WERE WATCHING A MOVIE. I WAS LIKE WHATEVER ABOUT IT. THEN HE STARTED TALKING ABOUT THE GUY I WAS TALKING ABOUT. I CHANGED THE SUBJECT. . . . .WE DID WHAT WE WANTED TO. . . .AFTER TAHT I WAS TRYING TO PLAY A GAME WITH HIM AND I SWEAR HE WAS LIKE PMSING . . . . . .I WOULD GET MAD ABOUT EVERY THING . . AND THEN HE TOLD ME "WHY DON'T YOU GO PLAY YOUR GAME WITH THE GUY WE'RE TALKING TO?". . . .. . . . .
SO I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO......
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 05:03 pm
OK. what do you want? because you are playing both ends against the middle. I don't want to sound judgemental but you are the one who is going to get burned here.
Maybe its just me but dating one guy with the intention of forming a relationship and sleeping with another is a real bad idea.
You are over him but still want an FWB? Why? Why go there instead of creating something with the new guy?
Maybe I am missing something here and need more info. But it seems to me that you are doing what we hate in guys. A female player perhaps?
Your ex is probably being this way because he still has feelings for you--or perhaps he just doesn't want you to be with someone else. Either way, this is a land mine waiting to blow up in your face one way or another
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 05:47 pm
well i was talking to the other guy but i found out he has a girlfriend. so i don't want any problems you feel me? my ex doesn't know i stop talking to him cause that my personal love life. he don't need to know.
the true ...... i'm not trying to play anybody..... i'm meeting new guys and talking to him. so i just wanted somebody to mess around with. . . my ex left me so i made a deal with him that we were only going to sleep together until one of us had a commitment. . . .
i'm not trying to be a player. . . . .so that why i told him straight out what i wanted and how i didn't feel anything for him only friends. he agreed . . . .
so now i feel like i'm the guy and he's the girl
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 06:06 pm
Get a vibrator for pete's sake!
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 06:45 pm
so now i feel like i'm the guy and he's the girl
Ya and we know how much we girls love to be treated that way!
Wed Nov 18 2009 - 07:33 pm
K...LOL!
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