Mine was 15 months, though i took the risk and went home with him after our first date, it did not happen. Second and third date nothing  Until recently. Hehe.

It's your legs you want to keep crossed.  ;-)

Congratulations on the not sleeping with him bit:)  Wait for him to ask you out again and ask what you might like to do.  I think it is better not to tell him unless he asks.  Yes, he should be more organized.  Give him another chance if you like him:)

I swear I don't know how you all do it. I think I must be one of those with "very poor boundaries"--- when it's someone I'm really hot for. And it's either ON or OFF for me, I tend not to even want to bother going on a date with a guy who doesn't intrigue me IN THAT WAY instantly. It's not necessarily looks (though that certainly doesn't hurt), but if something about the man gets me going enough to want to go out with him one-on-one... well, I really should lock myself in a cage to keep myself out of trouble. This is something I've always struggled with, and it's screwed me over (heh, pun intended) a few times really bad. I'm not promiscuous in terms of numbers (again, bc I'm picky) but if I'm into the guy, well, I guess you could say I'm pretty darn "easy". I don't believe in holding out TOO LONG ---and could never in a million years do that anyway--- but I've GOT to find a way to keep it zipped at least til after like the 5th date. These tips here are good--- I really like the one about keeping the house in a mess! And another one i think is good to try is to make a sexy game out of you & the guy taunting and teasing each other over a protracted period of little baby steps down the golden path... a game to see who can refrain the longest... I think I'm going to have fun with this with the next guy: something to look forward to!!

I had a friend who would not shave before her dates and would wear the dingiest underwear she had, in order to not sleep with a guy.  She wouldn't want the guy to see her hairy armpits and dingy underwear and that kept her from going to far.