his ex is still in the picture ;-(

Oh! Shuddup Puffs. Come here and I will comfort you after a long days' work:)
You are sooo distraught and can't even punch your way out of a paper bag:)))
Come here, honey...
SMOOCHES... everything will be OK in the morning,
Audsie
xoxox

P.S. ITM and "someone" are having cyber-s3x. Yep!!!
They have know each other..and "deceived" us. Soooo cute:)))

Mwah! Mwah!
That's how they do it in my country.
Both cheeks!!

xoxo

Essenz,

Who gives a flying duck what anyone else would do? Is Anyone Else going to be there for you day after night, during national holidays, when you're down and need support, etc., etc., etc. and holding your hand on your deathbed? Pff. I doubt that.

This is your choice alone, there's no right or wrong. He has an impediment that's simply emotional rather than physical (like a broken leg or missing an arm). At least it's guaranteed not to be permanant. And who's to say what you as an individual have strength enough to deal with as opposed to not? Only you.

The only question you have to ask is, do you WANT to be an accessory or accompanier on his recovery path if it means keeping that level of chemistry... is the level worth it? Or would you rather cut your losses and find someone who appears on the surface not to have any difficulties whatsoever in his life?

Whichever answer you come up with that feels comfortable thus ultimate will, by auto default, be the right one.

IF, however, you lack sufficient data to make that decision, then the solution is obvious: wait to gather more.

Don't fear a broken heart - because it's very useful, you know. That pain is a sign that you're growing. If you're in it to win it then give it your best shot; that's the ONLY realistic way to ensure you succeed at whatever YOU deem Success.

So... In or Out or Don't Know Yet?

xoxo