He's moving in with his female friend...
Tue Feb 02 2010 - 08:22 pm
Ladies,
Just want feedback about a situation where a friend of mine's new boyfriend is moving in with his best female friend. He was recently dejected from his apartment, and will be moving into a two bedroom with her. I'm pretty sure he's crazy about my friend and seems pretty smitten with her, but the relationship is still very new (she has yet to meet this female friend, for instance) and isn't sure if this is kosher.
My friend isn't sure if this should bother her or not, and I'm not sure either. What do all of you think?
Tue Feb 02 2010 - 08:44 pm
well...your friend doesn't know whether the new roommate is heterosexual, or gay. or maybe this girl has a boyfriend who will be over there visiting all the time.
i might be uncomfortable, if i were in your friend's shoes. but you can all see from my posting (about my boyfriend wanting to be friends with his ex-wife) what my feelings are. but that's just me--doesn't mean i'm right.
i know a girl in her twenties who considered moving in with a guy friend (they'd been friends since high school.) she honestly had no interest in him romantically; she liked someone else.
i say: wait and see and get more info.
Tue Feb 02 2010 - 08:47 pm
I have had male room mates before and nothing even remotely ever happened. I would say trust him until he gives her good reason not to
Tue Feb 02 2010 - 11:11 pm
Hi Barnowl
GREAT POST...
One of my last relationships... my boyfriend moved one of his female co-worker friends into his place after we broke-up. However, he informed me EARLY-ON in the beginning of our relationship that he had promised his female co-worker that she could move-in for a short period of time, because she wasn't getting along with her current roommate. He also invited me to meet her, which I did over a 2-hour dinner and he pushed back her move-in date until I was comfortable with the situation. This girl had a boyfriend who lived out-of-state and her boyfriend (of 10+ years) didn't mind at all...which seemed strange to me. Honestly, when my ex-boyfriend informed me about the situation...I thought I was going to "PASS-OUT." I told him NO, because I wasn't comfortable with the situation and it made me upset to know that this female co-worker wanted to move-in with my man. However, after meeting her...I felt at peace with the situation, because he was really wanting her to move-in to keep his promise and he assured me it was nothing. In the beginning of our relationship he also had informed me that he use to have female roommates, so I didn't think it was strange...it was just new to me. However, I was very UPSET when he informed me that his female co-worker finally moved-in several days after he broke-up with me. The whole situation was uncomfortable to me, but I did trust my man, because he never once hid anything.
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