is he still interested
Sat Oct 10 2009 - 05:15 pm
hiya dinner would be good sometime,however really busy at moment maybe when things are less frantic.got a couple of more months and i will be a cisco certified profesional. ithought you would have finished college by now? you still doing hairdressing?oh well,had my fag and a coffee, back to work catch you later.
Sat Oct 10 2009 - 05:30 pm
Only slightly, IMO, Tracy.
He doesn't say 'some time soon' or 'next week'. Some Time is too vague.
'Really busy' = this busyness will last.
'Maybe when things are less frantic.' Why not just 'When things are less frantic'? This translates to 'First you have to wait until I'm not busy, and ONLY THEN I will need more time to decide between Yes and No (i.e. I don't know)'.
But he does ask you two definite questions, thereby proving he has SOME interest in you.
Then he basically informs you that he only texted you because he was in a position where he had a tiny bit of time on his hands. I.e. he was outside with nothing to concentrate on but his coffee and cigarette and, therefore, texting you was no hardship.
However - again - he still asked you two questions.
I think he likes you but is uninspired by you.
Probably because you're doing HIS job - asking him out to dinner.
He wants to - like any male - have to persuade you to want to have dinner with him, by impressing you with his manly prowess. How much would you enjoy your hairdressing if someone else snatched the scissors from you and said 'I'll do it for you - you just stand here all day and watch'?
You need to read the DWD ebook, Tracy.
Hope that helped. xoxo
Sun Oct 11 2009 - 02:44 am
so what do i do in this situation. how do i turn things around and make him want to be getting in contact to ask me out.
Sun Oct 11 2009 - 03:53 am
Nothing. It's hard, but leave him alone completely. No impromtu texts, messages, phone calls or anything. If he's interested, he will come running! Have you got the DWD book? Definitely worth reading and understanding the concept.
Sun Oct 11 2009 - 04:24 am
no how do i get a hold of it.
Sun Oct 11 2009 - 04:29 am
to let you understand it was too confusing so we kinda both ended it. but now i would like to be friends with him and see how things go. i sent another 2 emails soon after and no reply.yeah i think you are right to just leave things and see whay happens. but how long do i give him?
Sun Oct 11 2009 - 05:08 am
Tracy, to get the ebook click on Dating Articles at the top of your screen on the pink header bar and at the end of any article is a link for purchasing the DWD e-book.
How long? How long is a piece of string? It's his control, not yours (not fair but how it is). But if anything will speed him up then your total (happy, not bothered) silence will. Including you playing it cool if/when he next initiates a text to you in terms both of speed of response and reply content.
(The ebook will tell you everything you need to know and more.)
Best of luck. xoxo
Sun Oct 11 2009 - 04:44 pm
hiya hows it going? cheers for the email you still at college? iam plodding away. awat to eygpt later this month for some diving. you got internet again? t
Sun Oct 11 2009 - 04:46 pm
i cant get the book is their any other means of buying it.
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