First Call
Thu Oct 29 2009 - 04:55 pm
Hi my name is Valorie. My customer gave me a mans number he is very busy(she said)here you can call him or he will call you in a month when hes done with the deal hes working on? What do I do Wait or call?
Mon Nov 02 2009 - 06:55 pm
#2
I always suggest that a man call me. Even if he offers his number, I just politely turn to him, smile sweetly and say "I really prefer it that a man calls me. Is that OK with you?" And I write down my number for him. I never give a reason why either. It is enough that you say it's your preference.
Having the man make the call makes it easier as that way you can work out if he's really interested or not.
I would feel extremely hesitant about contacting a man if a third party has supplied his number.
Hey Val...well what would be the reason for you calling if he is too busy to call you? If you get voicemail and he doesn't return the call for another 30 days...will you be upset? If he answers and can't talk....will you be upset?
Val...you should just wait until HE has time to contact you and have a good conversation!