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He contracted me after 2 1/2 weeks with a lame excuse and dinner plans that didn't work. So Saturday I texted him asking him to call and he texted back and then poof! So yeah, I'm not sure why he made contract after a more than two weeks but he did. Now, nothing.

 
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What was the lame excuse (and about not having done What)?

What were the dinner plans, when, and how didn't they work?

What did your text say specifically?

What did his reply say specifically?

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PS: How old are you and have you had kids yet? xoxo

 
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Okay, the lame excuse for not contacting me was trouble with the new blackberry he got and his old phone with the contacts (ie my number) was ran over so he didn't have my number. He went through his home caller id to call me 2 1/2 weeks later at noon. (knowing I was at work so I would have to call him back.)

So we were going to have dinner on his break the next night. (I work during the day. He works at night but can take dinner breaks. I can't leave my job, I'm a teacher.) I called when I got home and he said it would be late (7:30) I said I wasn't sure because that was late and I get up early. He understand and said it's cool if we do or if we don't. But said he would call me at 7 and we would see. (FYI this was the third time we have tried to have dinner on his break but each time his work isn't done yet and he can't make it.) So at 8 he calls and says I guess we ain't going. I was like, yeah, I figured. He wanted to try Friday but I had plans with the girls. So I texted him Saturday saying "since you lost it, you can call me" because he was like call me sometime. We texted about how was my night out "groovy", awesome, how was work? Sucked hard and had to work too hard. My last text was "Sorry to hear work sucked. Drink some German beer and chill. (He promised me when he was in Germany that he would let me taste it. I was like I hate beer but am willing to try it. We had these beer tasting planned for about two months because he was deployed in Germany.)

Well that was last saturday. (Seven days ago)Still no contact. THe thing is, he has my email, my address, IM, yahoo, cell & home #'s and my space so if he needed my number, he had to a way to contract me.

I'm 33 with no kids.

 
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I do the same thing Tufkagk on any issue I might be fretting about. It's a good one. I am right now just collecting quotes to use, but rather than using any of them, for now, I am sitting on them for the time being...I'm glad you mentioned that though!