Thanks Smerk...I think Im going to keep three journals just like yourself and Julie thats a great idea..sharing what I found out about myself with the guy...Thetababe, breaking up with him is not something that i plan on doing but does it sounds as if Im breaking up with him? I want him to chase and pursue me like he did in the beginning...I want to be close with him and have those profound conversations that we used to have...etc..I want him to see me in a different light and most of all I dont want him to take me for granted!
In that case, then I think you have a plan. The poor thing won't know what hit him. Re-inventing yourself is a great way to keep the romance alive and keep him on his toes. Guys love that. They hate getting in a rut just like everyone else.
Please keep us posted on your progress, this is an interesting thread.
That is not a problem wings..I plan on posting my progress on this thread so I keep track of myself and actions....Today I took the first step in opening my life long dream of opening a business. This would take a couple of months to get my bearings in gear. My boss told me that I no longer have to work some lunch times...Now I have five lunchtimes all to myself to attend aerobics class, so combine that with the yoga, breathing, meditation and healthy eating...what do u get? a sexy, healthy woman..lol. Today I also sign up with one of my girlfriends and our co workers to do a Spanish course and plus its free...its two days for the week....I am also in the process of learning my ancestors language. My father is teaching me and I am learning on my own..today I bought myself a treat...a new jacket to go to work and a nail polish that I never would have bought :) Hey its time to play dress up...and thanks thetababe the poor thing would not know what really hit him....lol
At the moment I want to work on a positive attitude...sometimes I slip but I guess I would get there with the right attitude and persistence...
I think you posted something profound under breakups, I left you a message, go check it out please.
Good for you!!!!!
That's no problem...on this site our happiness are doubled and our sorrows shared.....
I like that. That will probably end up in the great quotes on the refrigerator.
that quote should be in our friendships and relationships


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