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calling dilemma

Sun Nov 15 2009 - 01:46 pm

Hi everyone ... I exchanged phone numbers on Thurs. with this guy from a dating site. We had said we'd get in touch over the weekend. It's Sunday almost noon and I haven't heard from him. Should I call him, or should I take it that since he has my number, and I did invite him to call me over the weekend, that's a clear sign he's no longer into the idea of us talking?

Generally experience has shown me that if he's got your number and you've told him to call, he'll call if he's interested! I don't want to call him and have one of those awful conversations where I can tell he didn't really want to hear from me.

Any thoughts?

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Sun Nov 15 2009 - 02:24 pm

Don't call. He has your number. Have the attitude that if he calls he calls, if not it's "NEXT".

 
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Sun Nov 15 2009 - 03:29 pm

Thanks Robin! I've had good vibes about him and I'm feeling dangerously close to calling, so I need the support. :)

 
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Sun Nov 15 2009 - 03:30 pm

I agree, he has his number, he needs to call you. So go find something fun to do and if he calls then you have something to talk about -- the great day you had!

 
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Sun Nov 15 2009 - 03:40 pm

Thanks Coffee! You're right. I just took myself out on a "shopping date" and it really helped to get my mind off hoping he'll call!

 
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Sun Nov 15 2009 - 05:36 pm

He called. So glad I didn't call him! Thanks again, ladies.

 
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Sun Nov 15 2009 - 10:18 pm

Another one bites the dust.......;)

 
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Mon Nov 16 2009 - 12:00 am

:)

 
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Mon Nov 16 2009 - 08:02 pm

so glad he did pandora! have fun just chatting!

 
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Tue Nov 17 2009 - 12:51 am

Thanks itspossible! We did have a great talk -- there seems to be possibility there! :)

 
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Thu Nov 19 2009 - 03:05 pm

Well -- it's been four days since I talked to this guy. We had a really good conversation, which I had to end after about 25 minutes or so because I had plans. So I told him I was sorry I had to get off the phone, but I'd like to talk again if he would and he said he would. We seemed to end on a very upbeat note, but I haven't heard from him. As of last night, I've begun to get a bit panicky. I know it hasn't been that long, but there's always that window of time where if they miss the window, it feels like they aren't very interested and my enthusiasm wanes.

I know I shouldn't call him -- right?

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