Broke up with my boyfriend tonight...feeling like poo.

I broke up with my guy tonight. We'd only been together 2 months but it was one of those convoluted ones because both of us had an eye toward a long-term relationship and marriage. I really thought this guy was "it" for me. And it has taken me going through so many jerks and losers to get to this guy.

On one hand, he is smart, funny, educated, a gentleman, treated me well, loved and cared for me, took care of me when I was sick, complimented me and showered me with affection.

On the flip side, he also is several years older than me, so he has limited energy, he is fairly anti-social/socially awkward, he doesn't have many friends, he is 110% focused on work, and we have conflicting schedules so it's hard to see each other. Most of all, he has misrepresented himself (presented himself as having a flexible schedule, and strong finances, when he in fact, has neither--his work takes up the vast majority of his time, and he is way in debt and late on his bills all the time.)

I also caught him in a couple of big lies, not the least of which is the fact that he somehow got ahold of old addresses of mine from my years past (I'm almost positive he did a background search on me), and they popped up on the recently searched box of his Google Maps on his laptop (meaning he was Google mapping old places I used to live, including my parents' house.) I had never used his laptop before so it certainly wasn't me. When I confronted him about it, he made up a lie that I believed, until I figured out it wasn't true.

When confronted a second time, he vehmently denies doing a background search on me, and has "no idea" how all of my old addresses could have possibly gotten into the memory of his Google Maps.

I know all of you out there are probably like, "He's a creep! Run away!"

And I did. It was just harder than I thought it would be. Because he's not 100% a creep, although he has done some creepy things. It makes me sad because on many levels we connected so well, and I know that he really does love me. And I loved him. I can't say I was "head over heels, crazy" in love, but I did feel love for him.
I just can't get past the lies and misrepresentation.

I'm so hurt and disappointed. I cried the whole time I was breaking up with him. He actually had to console me.

And I'm extra sad to now be facing the holidays alone, for another year. I was so excited to have found someone to love, and he was going to come home with me for the holidays and I was going to introduce him to everyone.

Now I have to call my family and tell them he isn't coming.

Ladies, can you help me out and just remind me that I did the right thing? My head knows I acted correctly, but my heart is really hurting right now.