Am I the drama in this relationship

Well ladies am beginning to think that I'm the drama in this relationship. I want some honest answers to these questions, please don't hold back your true thoughts, just try not to be mean.

1. Decrease in communication now that he is home. I have been in the LDR over a year. We both travel overseas for work. When he was overseas, I got calls everyday, and e-mails everyday. He got home about two weeks ago and the calls and e-mail have stopped. I do all the initial connections. I stopped initiating the communication and it has been almost 6 days since I talked to him or even had an e-mail. I'm still overseas, sometimes I think I'm to high maintenance requiring so much time. I'm I asking for to much because I want regular conversation?

2. Again we have been in this relationship over one year. We initially did not meet the families. Now as plan it is time for us to meet the families. He has met most of the people in my family except my son. Who leaves out of town. But my son knows about him. I asked him when am I going to meet his children. He said he didn't even tell them he was dating, so what he will do for this year is to tell them he will start dating. Again here I am with the drama. I am very upset about this. (Mad as hell). Because he was suppose to tell his children he was dating long time ago. And we were suppose to meet now. But now he says maybe in about another 6-9 months we can meet. (He is a widower, their mother died 5 years ago). The children are married and now have children of their own. What you view on this situation.

3. To much intellectual help. Ok I'm what they call book smart.
And when asked, I can pretty much figure out most problems when it comes to the business aspect of my life and his. I re-did his resume, now he gets more jobs. But now I think the only time we really get in to a lengthy conversation, it is about him or his current or potential employment. I have always had this problem of helping to much. I meet two kinds of men. One who wants me for my brain, and other who want..... I need someone that can combine the two, but that's another subject. How can you tell if they want you are what you can do for them.

Ok that's it.