Tue Aug 25 2009 - 11:42 pm
It's sad when it takes a horrific story like that to convince people!
soulmate, I have a little class and would rather not mention what IT means..as smart as you are I believe you have it all figured out already...xxoo
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 12:30 am
x's i can hear what your saying totally i have got childern of my own and if i thought a guy i was with or married to had even thought about any of my childern in sexual manner trust he would be wearing his danly bits for earings before he could even think of an excuse.
But the point still remains that she said she saw him standing in the door way early in the morning ? that is it. He could of been seeing if she was ok, she could of as has been mentioned been talkin in her sleep and he looked in to see who was there?
YOu don't know , i don't know the only person who does know is the woman who alleged that something isn't rite.
I'm not saying that he has or he hasn't done anything , you said that she assumes something has by the way she treats her husband and whatches him like 'theif'.....still not soild proof is it.
like i have said there are basic questions that have not been answered before anything can be said or done.
Spectulation is not enough to 'hang a man'
Now either this woman is naive or a tad slow off the mark , because if it was any of my childern i thought a man was doing this too he would be out and in prison a.s.a.p
She's been suspicous since december???? its now august.?....oh come on ! Your tryin to tell me that any 'normal' parent who cares about their child would allow this to go on for 8 mths?????.
I don't think so do you?
like i said no facts at all, specualtion is ALL that HAS BEEN SAID.
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 12:41 am
My youngest daughter was so deeply affected by the man living in my home, the one who peeked, that she has lived with her father for the last 3 1/2 years and, even though he was out of my home for good, she refused to come back and spend any time with me.
I rarely see her, my youngest of four.
I may never know exactly what happened as they (she and her older sis who does live with me) are not telling.
If your girlfriend asked her man what he was up to and he didn't have a believable answer......then there is her answer.
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 12:45 am
That's just it...lots left out here and we only have an answer for what has been told to us. puzzled, I have heard many horror stories by adults who as a child were abused and mom either was too afraid or in denial about confronting the issue. Until we have more to go on we are just speculating as you put it. We need the whole story...if there IS one!
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 12:46 am
good point marcianne, unless he's a pathological liar.
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 12:50 am
He may be a pathological liar.....but with careful observation,
they can be had too.
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 12:57 am
Puzzled,
Who's talking about hanging the man? I am talking about taking ever precaution as is reasonably prudent to keep a child safe.
and get professionals involved to asertain IF anything happened..
If he did something then hang hi, if he was headed in that direction, then get him some ontervention, or do nothing , I don't care what becomes of him, not hainvg enough evidense to damn him doesn't negate common sense of removing the child from the situation.
Like i said before, if she mistrusts the man, then it is emcumbent upon HER to get HER child out of their.
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 02:11 am
Thanku Xhris, He's a great guy generally and i'd love to see it work out for them. You may be right, spoke to my daughter and she said it's the male bonding thing and assures me all is well so i'll let it go. But i did mention that some of his references can give out the wrong vibe and he should be careful, also may make my grandson think it's ok to talk like that which others may percieve in the wrong way, which may be detrimental to his mental health. Your feedback is appreciated. Thankyou. XX
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 03:26 am
i hear what your saying x's and i don't disagree with it. But all this woman is doing is thinking about divorcing her husband ???
Only concern as you say is for the child , oddly enough that appears not to have happened.
8mths and nothing has been said or done????
If i was even in the slightest bit concerend for one second that something like that had happened in my home or anywhere else, to one of my childern all hell would break loose at that moment..........Thats a parents natural reaction to protect their childern.
What i'm asking is why if woman suspects that something is wrong has she done nothing???
Wed Aug 26 2009 - 05:29 pm
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