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Paige Parker

Drama-Free Dating Advice: "Never make someone a priority who only makes you an option."

Wed Jun 09 2010 - 06:03 pm

Drama-Free Dating Advice of the Day: Never make someone a priority who only makes you an option.

Until you are in a serious, committed relationship with a man who values you, treats you well, respects you and wants to include you in most aspects of his life, don't make him your one and only!

As you know, I strongly recommend dating a few people until you get serious/choose to commit to one special guy. The reasons for this are:

1) No room for desperation: it takes the pressure off every situation because you're not putting so much stock in just one relationship.

2) No wasted time: If things don't work out with one man, oh well! You still have 2 others calling and asking you on dates.
3) Guy #1 may discover that you're dating other men, decide he can't handle it and ask for a commitment!

4) You'll gain dating experience, learning more about your likes & dislikes

5) You might meet someone you like even better!

xo, PP